New pictures of Miss Avery in the main photobucket page

Phillip and I decided, after much discussion and indecision, to do a friends cut here and on our Myspaces. It wasn't an easy choice, for a couple of you, and I (I assume probably "we") feel bad that it had to be that way, but we decided that it was just best to close the book on that chapter of our lives forever. After the initial hurt and surprise, we haven't felt much of anything. We took that as an indication that we were definitely ready to move on in the new direction we're taking in our lives. I just want a couple of you to know that we enjoyed your friendship, for a time, and apologize that it's just time to move on. I'm sure you understand and probably agree. We've carried away a few fond memories, despite it all.

We wish you all the best in everything. Really.

Dear People that I used to know:

I'm really sorry for you. I can't imagine being so filled with jealousy and hate(?) that I have to make myself feel better with trying to make people feel bad. I'm not being funny/catty/cute when I say this, but I seriously think you should consider counseling. I would expect things like this out of 13 year old pubescent girls, but I certainly wouldn't expect it out of people your age. You need to go to therapy and to church and see if one of those can help you release these feelings of anger(?) or whatever you have inside that's making you so...vile. If bets are made how long it will take to mention someone and it takes 5 minutes, I think that both the people betting AND the person who lost the bet should reconsider their priorities.

It's in the knowledge that you have these problems, that I am not hurt by them and can forgive you, the same way you may forgive a 6 year old for saying things that are inappropriate. They don't know any better, and neither do you. It isn't your fault. Something inside of you is broken right now. But please know there is hope, and that you CAN feel better about yourself. Please get the help to do that. Everyone deserves to be happy, and you ARE worth the time.

If you'd like to talk things over with me, you clearly know my email address (the old one anyway, it forwards). Please feel free to email me. I only ask that it be constructive, because everything else will be ignored. I'd love to help you through these rough times. I have been forgiven, and I forgave you ages ago. It's time for you to forgive yourself so the healing can start. I'll keep you in my prayers.

-Jaime

Oh holy cow I'm in love. I just found the BEST THING EVER on Youtube and maybe you've ALL seen it but I have not and dammit here it is.

Trust me, it'll be some of the happiest 6 minutes of your life. Seriously...watch it all.




LOVE this guy. Left public because the world needs to see brilliance.

(it's not good at all without sound)